I asked 7 interior designers how they make a living room feel cosy – these are the 5 non-negotiables they recommend to create a cocooning lounge like a pro
These are the 5 ways all interior designers agree you need to make a living room look and feel cosy
A living room should feel cosy and relaxed all year round – but it’s something we all naturally crave during the cold winter months. If you find your lounge lacking that cocooning feel as you enter the new year, you’re in luck because I asked 7 interior designers to tell me how they go about making a living room cosy. And they had some thoughts.
They all agreed that it all comes down to these 5 non-negotiable cosy living room ideas and design elements they always focus on, whether it’s their own living room or a client’s.
‘A living room should be a sanctuary, somewhere where you can truly switch off from the outside world and feel safe, calm and at ease,’ says Emma Deterding, founder and creative director of Kelling Designs. ‘As the heart of the home, I always focus on designing a space that supports rest, connection and those all-important daily rituals. Balance and flow are crucial as they'll make sure the room feels calm from a visual perspective.’
1. Layer your lighting
Choosing the right living room lighting ideas is crucial for making the space feel cosy. The key? Go for multiple, layered sources of light and opt for warm lightbulbs.
‘Lighting is fundamental to everything I do,’ says interior designer Bilal Rehman. ‘I avoid relying on a single overhead source at all costs. Instead, I build the room through layers of lighting. The principle is simple – light should exist at different heights and in different corners of the room. Table lamps at eye level, a floor lamp beside seating, and subtle wall lighting all help to create a softer, more intimate atmosphere. Everything should be dimmable and warmer in tone. The aim is never full illumination, but a more comfortable, evenly lit space.’
2. Mix textured textiles
‘I am a strong believer that sometimes what a space is missing is not colour, but texture. A cream or even white room can feel incredibly cosy if the surface itself has depth,’ Bilal Rehman explains.
Even the queen of interior design herself, Kelly Hoppen has declared texture to be the most important element of any room. And it’s one that also makes for a cosy look and feel.
‘Texture does a lot of the heavy lifting,’ says Gemma Samuels, founder and creative director of Ankka. ‘I focus on softness and weight. Upholstery matters enormously. I lean towards fabrics that invite touch – bouclé, velvet, brushed linens, wool blends. I like rooms that feel layered rather than flat. That might be through a textured rug underfoot, curtains with a bit of weight and movement, timber elements, stone, leather, or even subtle wall finishes. These layers add depth and a sense of richness without clutter.’
3. Choose comfortable seating
The seating in your living room is central to the space that everything else revolves around – so your best sofa and armchairs need to be super comfy and lounging-ready in order to help create that cosy look and feel. And with relaxed lounges being the biggest, overarching living room trend this year, it’s no surprise that deep-seated sofas are rising in popularity as they are perfect for cosy living rooms.
‘Comfort is non-negotiable, so prioritise inviting seating such as sofas and armchairs that you can truly sink into,’ Emma at Kelling Designs says.
Kate Guinness, founder of Kate Guinness Design, adds, ‘A comfortable sofa with lots of lovely cushions and a comfy footstool/ottoman is really important. The sofas in the sitting room of our London house were made extra deep as we’re both tall, with removable and washable covers – essential for a busy family with small children.’
4. Create a sociable layout
It’s not just about the individual pieces and elements – a cosy living room is also created by the way everything is brought together. Especially the way the living room furniture is arranged.
‘I think people underestimate layout,’ says Noor Charchafchi, founder of Celine Interior Design. ‘Cosy doesn’t mean small, it means connected. I’ll often pull furniture slightly closer together to create a proper conversation area, and I’ll make sure there’s somewhere to put a cup of tea, a book, or a candle, because it’s those little details that make a space feel like it’s been designed for real life.’
Jo Lane, founder of online interior design service See Your Place, continues, ‘For me, cosiness lies in how you arrange your living room furniture, and how you accessorise it for maximum comfort. It’s creating an intentional space with every detail considered for comfort; a classic U-shaped seating layout to make it a sociable space which brings people together.’
5. Add personal touches
Adding pieces that are special and meaningful to you is where that warm, inviting feel of cosy living rooms often lies. Whether it’s decorative pieces collected during travels, coffee table books or artwork that’s connected to happy memories, a living room will never feel entirely cosy without these elements.
‘I think about what makes the space personal. Books, art, objects with meaning – these are what stop a living room from feeling like a showroom. I encourage clients not to rush this part. A room becomes cosy over time, as it absorbs life, habits, and memories,’ Gemma at Ankka explains.
Noor at Celine Interior Design adds, ‘It might be even a scent that feels familiar. Cosiness isn’t just about styling, it’s about creating a room that feels like you. That’s always the goal, whether it’s my own home or a client’s.’
Cosy living room top picks
This lamp looks so much more expensive than it actually it is, while also bringing texture through the irregular glass finish and warmth with the amber colour.
Not only is this John Lewis sofa modular and deep-seated, but its low profile also adds to the cosy feel of it, as does this olive green linen finish which can be with you in 7 days.
Rugs offer the perfect opportunity to incorporate more texture into your space which in turn helps to make it feel cosier. And this jute design from La Redoute is ideal as it even comes with a checked pattern on top.
Not only does this MADE armchair look like it's made off four plump pillows (or cushions) put together, it pretty much feels that way too. And that makes it the perfect addition to a cosy living room in my books.
But as the designers have already explained, one light source is not enough when creating a cosy lighting scheme. So along with your table lamp(s), you'll also need a floor lamp like this super stylish one from Habitat's collab with Morris & Co.
Available in two different nature-inspired colourways, this knitted throw is great for adding more texture to a living space. And it would go great with that green linen Border sofa, too.
Gemma at Ankka concludes, ‘Cosiness is a feeling built through intention, restraint, and care. When a living room reflects the people who live in it and supports how they want to feel at the end of the day, warmth follows naturally.’
